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How to Spot a Passive Aggressive Husband | D4mations.com
  • Saturday , 23 January 2021

How to Spot a Passive Aggressive Husband

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The passive aggressive husband can sometimes be tricky to spot out. He’s caring, happy, and easy going on the outside. At work he’s always offering to give a helping hand.

So why is it that when he’s at home he can’t seem to keep his commitments?

He’s negative, procrastinates, and conveniently forgets to do most things asked of him.

Does he have a split personality?

Doesn’t he care?

Your husband builds up anger and resentment, and secretly takes his hostility out on you. But he does it in such a subtle way that outwardly, he appears to be a normal, caring guy.

This duplicity is by all means frustrating and confusing. You could be minding your own business and your husband could make a sarcastic remark about your weight. If you confront him, he was “only joking.” Or you could ask him for help washing the dishes, but he’ll do such a bad job that you end up doing it all yourself. He could constantly “forget to do” chores he’s supposed to do around the house, like paying the bills, forcing you to confront him when they are beyond the due date, and worst unpaid.

Whatever passive-aggressive traits he may have are strikingly akin to what is known in psychology as hostile dependency. Since he could never trust that his parents would respond positively to his needs, now grown up he is still not comfortable being in situations of dependency.

He is bringing this toxic mix of unmet dependency needs from his past, (now focused on dependency from you, his wife) as well as his ambivalence about these needs–to his deeper relationship. So he gives mixed messages to you, ultimately leaving you hurt, confused, or even outraged by his hostile-dependent reactions. He has never resolved his internal conflict about being dependent of somebody else in the first place, which is a high risk.

What is your reaction to his maddening behavior? The passive aggressive husband’s spouse usually feels despair over her husband’s inabilty to cooperate with her. She feels frustrated with his negative attitude and endless excuses, and tends to blame herself for the gap between the two.

If you have suspicions that your husband may be acting in a passive aggressive way, ask yourself some questions:

When you ask him to do something, does he:

  • Constantly “forget” to do it?
  • Is he usually negative towards you, and unreasonably critical?
  • Sabotage you by not being supportive in your goals?
  • Take verbal jabs at you, under the guise that he is joking, or being sarcastic?
  • Speak negatively about you to others, while maintaining the act that he is “a perfect husband”?

If any of those actions ring a bell, it sounds like your husband is passive aggressive.

Basically, when your husband is angry, he takes his anger out on you in an indirect way, so you don’t even know that he’s doing it. It is a devastating cycle that can end intimate relationships like marriage.

It’s important to realize that passive-aggression is not necessarily less aggressive simply because it’s passive. Essentially, passive-aggressive behavior is an indirect form of aggression–not necessarily a milder form of aggression.

Now that you know there is a possibility that unresolved dependency issues of the past are acting out to render your marriage unglued, what can you do?


Original Source by Louis Clichot

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